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Separation: The Grand Illusion (via PositivelyPositive.com)
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Everything Is Going To Be Alright. I swear.
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Sometime I look for a sign from the Universe, from God, or from my Angels. Yes, I believe in Angels. I’m surrounded by them every day. They’re the people in my life who make my world better on the daily. I saw this sign recently, “Everything Is Going To Be Alright,” and I had to take a picture of it. It came at the exact moment I needed it. Ever notice that? You get a sign, or a person shows up, or you read something on a bathroom wall – no, not that cell number for a good time – I’m talking about a sign that life is going along just fine. You’re okay. Life is not as difficult or bad as you thought it was, and the challenge or situation isn’t ever really as big or little as I think it is. Again, get your mind out of the gutter, I’m putting out existential chat here, not ass.
I find things do have a way of working themselves out, and sometimes in the most unexpected ways. And isn’t that a part of what makes this ride called life fun? I mean if I knew all the results, outcomes, and finales how boring would that be?!?! A little bit of mystery and intrigue keeps me going. Oh, yeah, I have my moments when I curse my process, wanting to know the answer now. Take my car lease for example. I was supposed to turn it in next month, but I couldn’t find the new car I wanted to replace it, and man did I look for months. Other pieces to the lease turn in weren’t working out either. I needed some body work done but didn’t have the cash on hand to do it right away, along with some other maintenance, and I just couldn’t see how everything was going to get done by my turn in date. Then, one day while car shopping on-line, Google’s algorithm popped me up a photo of a new car, and it was love at first sight. Do I have to pay Google a finder’s fee? I had discovered my new car, but with a catch – it’s not available in the U.S until later this summer. I then called my car company and asked if I could extend my lease, and low and behold I could, and I did for six months which holds me until the new model arrives on the car lot of my local dealer later this year.
But let’s be honest, I never could have worked all that out with my own mind. I had to surf the unknown waves of my universe until I reached the shoreline and a solution. And the result was way better than I’d ever have imagined. And that’s usually my experience. I believe the Universe, God, our Guides, work with us and have a far greater ability to vision for us than we do. Not to take anything away from our visions, they’re an essential part of our existence. We need vision to grow and to move forward, to work towards something and to be excited. And I’ve found it best to not lose sight of the fact that this whole process is a co-creative one. We’re doing this along with some very important partners, many of whom are unseen.
Some of you might think I’m crazy, or a little too spiritual for your taste. That’s okay. Just do yourself a favor, and the next time you’re in a situation that’s not going the way you’d like it to go, take a breath, ask for some assistance from the Universe, and see if there’s any response via a resolution, a next step, or a person or situation showing up “out of the blue” that leads you to what or where you’re working to get to. You’ve heard the popular phrase, “Things have a way of working themselves out,” because they do. As a matter of fact, things already are, just the way they are. And remember, nothing stays the same for long. Change is the one thing we can be sure of. It’s inevitable, so ride the wave, set a course for adventure, and trust. And if you can’t muster up any trust at this precise moment, fake it till you make it because everything is going to be alright, eventually. I swear.
Amy W., Medical Doctor, Chicago, IL
“I worked with Barry Clark as my coach in the past and had a tremendously positive experience working with him. He is an intuitive, spiritual coach that both nurtured me and challenged me on deep levels. As a result, I feel that I made many breakthroughs within that then led to positive change manifesting in my outer world personally and professionally. I thoroughly enjoyed my work with him and would highly recommend him to anyone looking to be the change that they seek.”
Julie M., Psychotherapist, Malibu, CA
“Some people truly have a calling. Life Coaching is Barry’s calling. He possesses enormous depth and razor sharp instincts. His education and training brought him to the door but he has an innate gift that will move you through the door to the road that leads to your authentic life. Barry is all about the truth and he will help you to know yourself and identify what you want and don’t want. He is a master of helping to clear away the obstacles that block your progress and a graceful guide to the life that you are meant to have. Being “stuck” does not have to be a part of the human condition and Barry will show you the way out. With humor, compassion and spirituality, Barry will get you excited about your life and truly bring you into the light.”
Sohini S., Entrepreneur, Oakland, CA
“Barry is absolutely awesome! He has this amazing ability to hear what is being said beyond the words that I’m speaking. He shares and speaks with me in such a way that my perception of situations in my life transform. Barry has assisted me in growing in leaps and bounds. As my coach, I can count on him being authentic in his communication and knowing that he is one of my biggest cheerleaders. Barry is a gift and an extraordinary coach! Anyone who has Barry as a coach is in for the ride of their lives and will begin achieving their goals with grace and ease.”